The Prolegomena of Agapology -- an Emergent World Journal

Unknown Source Well, its more a Hierarchy than shades.  Hierarchy of Love 1. Theophila : Love for God, characterized by a deep, spiritual connection and devotion. 2. Self-Transcendent Love : Love that transcends personal desires and ego, connecting with something greater and fostering a sense of unity and interconnectedness. 3. Agape : Selfless, unconditional love that seeks the well-being of others without expecting anything in return. 4.   Altruism : Selfless concern for the well-being of others, often leading to acts of kindness and generosity. 5. Compassion : A deep awareness of and sympathy for another’s suffering, combined with a desire to alleviate it. 6.   Fidelity : Faithfulness and loyalty in relationships, often associated with commitment and trust. 7. Protectiveness : A strong desire to protect and care for someone, often seen in parental or close relationships. 8. Pragma : Practical or enduring love, often seen in long-term relationships where partners work t...

   “. . .as you love yourself” What does this mean to love neighbors as we love ourselves ?  Does this phrase insinuate a self-centered love?  No. Of course not! The phrase “ Love your neighbors as you love yourself ” emphasizes a love that is deeply rooted in selfless care and compassion . This love is not about self-indulgence but about recognizing the inherent value and dignity of every person -- including ourselves -- as created in the image of God. Here are some key points from this lesson: Practical Care: Loving oneself means taking care of one’s basic needs (e.g., eating when hungry, resting when tired). Similarly, loving your neighbor involves actively addressing their needs and ensuring their well-being. Self-Respect and Gratitude: One should love oneself by being faithful to God and grateful for the life given. This self-love is about recognizing one’s unique importance in the eyes of God and extending that same recognition to others. Moderation and Balan...